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Uhm, so yeah. Hi there.
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| (talking about sex) | |
| anyone ever: | have you heard about that thing where - |
| me: | yes |
Today I was stopped in the hallway on my way to class by one of the security guards. She wouldn’t let me go to class and forced me to walk across the school to the main office to have my mom, who by the way was on her way to work, bring me “real pants” because the way I dressed was “sexually provocative.” Because of this I was ten minutes late to class, and after five minutes of actually being in class I was taken back out to be talked to again by the security guard and given my “real pants.”
These shorts are mid-thigh, and I am wearing opaque black tights. Other than my hands and my face, I had no skin showing whatsoever. So tell me, how is this being “sexually provocative?” (reminder: this is a typical american public high school, not a private or religious-oriented school)
The security guard ridiculed me, saying that what I was wearing was inappropriate. I told her that everyday, other girls walk around in skin-tight yoga pants, some even with their thongs clearly showing, and shirts that are see-through. “This is not bad clothing.” I had told her. This security guard plays favorites with the girls on who she does call out and doesn’t call out. On game days, the cheerleaders decide to wear their skirts that barely cover their butts and she doesn’t cal them out at all. She also openly said to my mom “I don’t look at what the boys are wearing, only the girls.”
When my mom came in to bring me the pants, she had a long talk with the security guard. She told my mom that I should know that there is a dress code, and that I should follow it. My mom told her “Maybe there shouldn’t be a dress code if it isn’t monitored consistently. This is double-standards.”
My mom also told her “The only distraction from class that is going on is you are pulling my daughter out of class and keeping her from learning.”
I had to walk up to this security guard to get my long pants, since she was talking to my mom, and my mom said to me sarcastically: “It appears that you are being sexually provocative, darling.”
“Oh yes mama, all the boys are just popping boners everywhere!” I pretended to swoon. We both left, my mom calling back to the security guard: “I didn’t need this today, you know. I need to get to work and I haven’t even showered yet. Good Job.”
The whole ordeal was ridiculous. Girls shouldn’t be ridiculed for wearing shorts. Even so, I was wearing thick tights that you couldn’t see through–much better than just wearing yoga pants. There is no way that what I was wearing could even be considered “sexually provocative.” Plus, anything the boys wear is completely fine in the eyes of the security guard, it’s only what the girls are wearing that are “inappropriate.” Even yoga pants where you can see the thong through it don’t “disrupt class” because nobody cares enough about what a student wears and does not wear, only the security guards.
tl;dr, dress codes are counterproductive and the enforcers cause more disruption for a student’s learning than shorts do.
♬ my sweater tights and mid thigh shorts bring all the boys to the yard ♪
Reminds me of the time this girl in my class who was wearing shorts that went almost to her knees asked to use the restroom, took forever, and came back wearing different pants. She said she got stopped in the hall because her shorts were inappropriate so she changed into her sweatpants for PE. Even our teacher was like “What?” I guess her knees were just really provocative.
A similar thing happened to me today with my shoulders showing, okay apparently there’s a rule in our handbook that statements a 3 finger length top is appropriate but today i wore a dress which my father picked out for me at the store, do you really think my dad would pick a dress for me to wear that would show a lot of skin showing, NO. But i was told in 2nd hour that i needed to cover up my shoulders, are you kidding me. So i am around guys a lot during the day (i go to public school) and i asked all of them if they thought my shoulders were to sexual for them, they all said no, they also didn’t like or see the point why i needed to cover them up. I am getting really tried of this over sexually over women’s bodies, it’s not all of us that get targeted but its unfair and i don’t be it’s right at all and needs to stop.
ok wtf is with that security guard though
This literally makes me so fucking angry that I can’t even
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Let's get weird
| 1) Sexuality? |
| 2) If you could meet anyone on this earth, who would it be? |
| 3) Grab the book nearest to you, turn to page 23, give me line 17. |
| 4) What do you think about most? |
| 5) What does your latest text message from someone else say? |
| 6) Do you sleep with or without clothes on? |
| 7) What's your strangest talent? |
| 8) Girls.... (finish the sentence); Boys.... (finish the sentence) |
| 9) Ever had a poem or song written about you? |
| 10) When is the last time you played the air guitar? |
| 11) Do you have any strange phobias? |
| 12) Ever stuck a foreign object up your nose? |
| 13) What's your religion? |
| 14) If you are outside, what are you most likely doing? |
| 15) Do you prefer to be behind the camera or in front of it? |
| 16) Simple but extremely complex. Favorite band? |
| 17) What was the last lie you told? |
| 18) Do you believe in karma? |
| 19) What does your URL mean? |
| 20) What is your greatest weakness; your greatest strength? |
| 21) Who is your celebrity crush? |
| 22) Have you ever gone skinny dipping? |
| 23) How do you vent your anger? |
| 24) Do you have a collection of anything? |
| 25) Do you prefer talking on the phone or video chatting online? |
| 26) Are you happy with the person you've become? |
| 27) What's a sound you hate; sound you love? |
| 28) What's your biggest "what if"? |
| 29) Do you believe in ghosts? How about aliens? |
| 30) Stick your right arm out; what do you touch first? Do the same with your left arm. |
| 31) Smell the air. What do you smell? |
| 32) What's the worst place you have ever been to? |
| 33) Choose East Coast or West Coast? |
| 34) Most attractive singer of your opposite gender? |
| 35) To you, what is the meaning of life? |
| 36) Define Art. |
| 37) Do you believe in luck? |
| 38) What's the weather like right now? |
| 39) What time is it? |
| 40) Do you drive? If so, have you ever crashed? |
| 41) What was the last book you read? |
| 42) Do you like the smell of gasoline? |
| 43) Do you have any nicknames? |
| 44) What was the last movie you saw? |
| 45) What's the worst injury you've ever had? |
| 46) Have you ever caught a butterfly? |
| 47) Do you have any obsessions right now? |
| 48) What's your sexual orientation? |
| 49) Ever had a rumor spread about you? |
| 50) Do you believe in magic? |
| 51) Do you tend to hold grudges against people who have done you wrong? |
| 52) What is your astrological sign? |
| 53) Do you save money or spend it? |
| 54) What's the last thing you purchased? |
| 55) Love or lust? |
| 56) In a relationship? |
| 57) How many relationships have you had? |
| 58) Can you touch your nose with your tongue? |
| 59) Where were you yesterday? |
| 60) Is there anything pink within 10 feet of you? |
| 61) Are you wearing socks right now? |
| 62) What's your favorite animal? |
| 63) What is your secret weapon to get someone to like you? |
| 64) Where is your best friend? |
| 65) Spit or swallow?(; |
| 66) What is your heritage? |
| 67) What were you doing last night at 12 AM? |
| 68) What do you think is Satan's last name? |
| 69) Be honest. Ever gotten yourself off? |
| 70) Are you the kind of friend you would want to have as a friend? |
| 71) You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late one more time you get fired. What do you do? |
| 72) You are at the doctor’s office and she has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. a) Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? b) What do you do with your remaining days? c) Would you be afraid? |
| 73) You can only have one of these things; trust or love. |
| 74) What's a song that always makes you happy when you hear it? |
| 75) What are the last four digits in your cell phone number? |
| 76) In your opinion, what makes a great relationship? |
| 77) How can I win your heart? |
| 78) Can insanity bring on more creativity? |
| 79) What is the single best decision you have made in your life so far? |
| 80) What size shoes do you wear? |
| 81) What would you want to be written on your tombstone? |
| 82) What is your favorite word? |
| 83) Give me the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the word; heart. |
| 84) What is a saying you say a lot? |
| 85) What's the last song you listened to? |
| 86) Basic question; what's your favorite color/colors? |
| 87) What is your current desktop picture? |
| 88) If you could press a button and make anyone in the world instantaneously explode, who would it be? |
| 89) What would be a question you'd be afraid to tell the truth on? |
| 90) One night you wake up because you heard a noise. You turn on the light to find that you are surrounded by MUMMIES. The mummies aren't really doing anything, they're just standing around your bed. What do you do? |
| 91) You accidentally eat some radioactive vegetables. They were good, and what's even cooler is that they endow you with the super-power of your choice! What is that power? |
| 92) You can re-live any point of time in your life. The time-span can only be a half-hour, though. What half-hour of your past would you like to experience again? |
| 93) You can erase any horrible experience from your past. What will it be? |
| 94) You have the opportunity to sleep with the music-celebrity of your choice. Who would it be? |
| 95) You just got a free plane ticket to anywhere. You have to depart right now. Where are you gonna go? |
| 96) Do you have any relatives in jail? |
| 97) Have you ever thrown up in the car? |
| 98) Ever been on a plane? |
| 99) If the whole world were listening to you right now, what would you say? |
Oh my fucking god. I am CRYING. Oh hahahahahahahahhahaha.
holy fuck i did not expect that
Hahaha perfect.
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when people have self-harmed…
- dont yell at them
- dont say you’re disappointed in them
- dont say “cheer up” and expect anything out of that
- dont ignore them
- fucking talk to them and just be there for them
- listen to them
- but seriously dont yell at them
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